The Girl is Home!

To quote Erin and every well respected, decent Englishman....

HUZZAH!

The girl has been away a long time. And we've been apart. Conceivably we've always been apart. A 7 hour drive. 9 hours. It's all the same. What's a 9 hour flight?

Apparently a lot.

Go figure.

(This is so completely an off the wall love letter to the girl so, like, buzz off if you don't want to read.)

So much has happened in the past year, and unfortunately we've had to share those experiences vicariously. The really bad part is that our vicarious experiences have happened over a 56K modem in a rickety house bombarded by a huge spalunking thunderstorm.

In a word, patchy.

There's nothing much frustrating in this world (actually, there are a hell of a lot more things and I've experienced a lot of them, but hey, I'll go with the dramatic) than not being able to talk to the one you love when you want.

I want to talk to this girl for the rest of my life. It's been hard.

It's also been edifying.

I know more of you. I see more of you. And I am still so passionately in love with you. If not more so.

I really like you. You're one hell of a cool chick. And you're almost as twisted to me. Fingers crossed that you'll get there eventually. You show great promise little one.

Ultimately that's all I want to say. I love you like an exploding supernova in the Neverending Story. You know, 'cause it'll never end. And it'll destroy...that place...you know...Fantastica! (I'm destructive!) So, yeah, you're awesome. I'm glad you're home. *waves a little flag like Stuart Little at a football match*

It seems like I have not the eloquence to say anymore. (And I feel like I should just shut up, thank you Mike & Mike. I suspect only Andrew will get that, and even he might not.)

Cheers.

Now I Wait

The girl comes home on Sunday.

Very excellent.

The bad part? I sent my lovely girl a suprise present to occupy her time on the train to Rome and the following plane ride.

Did I send it in enough time? Oh, yes, I do believe so. However, I was silly enough to bank the thing getting there at least within the maximum amount of time they said the present would take to get there.

I do believe you can somewhat reliably bank on the United States Post Office.

European postal corriers? No chance in hell.

The sad thing is that what I sent is immensely important. Now I must bide my time and wait for it to be either forwarded to the girl or returned back to me. That's not the kind of shit I like to wait for.

These are pins and needles.

This is my ass.

Like long lost lovers, they come together with passion.

I Have a Problem with Smoking

I cite a brilliant Farside comic:

Two bears are in the woods. They are standing over a dead hunter.

One Bear is pointing at the gun the other Bear is holding, obviously just having said something.

The other Bear replies indignantly: "Thunderstick? You actually said Thunderstick? That, my friend, is a Winchester 30.06!"

I was walking along campus one day this week, sun was shining and all was glorious. Suddenly this guy cuts in front of me, leaving a cloud of smoke in my face. I turn to look at him to give the fellow a passing glance as I continued walking. Here are exactly my thoughts:

Blasted thunderstick.
No...wait, can't be right. Not a thunderstick, it's a...
It's a firestick!
...blasted firestick.

I then stopped walking and wondered aloud, "Did I just call a cigarette a firestick?"

Undoubtedly I had. And as I began walking once more, I had to come to grips with the fact that I just veritably channeled the incarnate Gary Larson. It was pretty strange. And incredibly demonstrative of how wacked out my mind is.

My wacked out mind and my love of all things Gary Larson, this I give to you today.

Tool's New'un

On May 2nd, Tool releases "10,000 Days." It's been 5 years since "Laterulas", my favorite Tool CD to date.

I knew guys in highschool who listened to Tool. They had the patches on their bookbags and were the quintessential tools and stoners. I knew who Tool was but, given that it took me a few years to get my bearings in pop culture, some time passed before I was fully acquainted with Tool. Fast forward to the summer of 2001, I believe, when I bought my first Tool album, the aforementioned "Lateralus." Exciting, meaningful, Christian-bashing rock'n'roll. I'm not a fan of the Christian bashing, but I see the truth in it. I wonder what Maynard would say if he knew one of his fans was a devoted to the God who "Wear(s) the grudge like a crown of negativity."

Also a huge fan of A Perfect Circle, Maynard's more intimate side project. I actually listened to A Perfect Circle far earlier than I did Tool, so at least knew what Tool could be like given my fascination and deep appreciation for A Perfect Circle. There was a girl in a church I used to go to who, at one point during a discussion about popular culture, broke down in tears over the hatred of God expressed by bands like Tool. I can understand her tears, truly. But I can't fathom them because I simply cannot refuse great music. I used to not be able to listen to Circle's "Judith." It contains the lyric "Fuck your God." Pretty hard for me to swallow. Yet, I gave a lot of time and consideration to the song even though I'd heard it only once or twice - it had such an amazing rock element. I realized that the lyric was a condemnation of the ignorance of Christians, which I am so completely in support of, and not, perhaps, of God Himself. It is truly worthy to listen to someone's thoughts about my religion, my God, and my faith - perhaps even when those words are laced with such venom and hatred. Truth behind the hatred. Maybe truth we can erradicate. Uplifting, eh?

Back to the topic at hand...

I'm listening to the first track off of "10,000 Days." The song, "Vicarious," is vintage Tool. Epic at 7 minutes and 8 seconds, percussive and riffing, all with Maynard's haunting and explosive voice. Yet while the song might be vintage Tool, apparently the album is not. And it's getting a hell of a lot of grief for it.

I'll wait and giddily await my chance to listen to the latest offering from my favorite hard rock band.

Freakin' A.

My Trip to Brokeback

It's personally insulting how long it took for me to see Brokeback Mountain. A film so critically acclaimed and so deliciously contested, yet three months passed before it came before my eyes. (Isn't it tragically indicative of how crippled my movie-going experience is that I thought Brokeback was released last summer?)

**Edit: So did not mean to post this for obvious reasons - my thoughts are minimalist! Shall come back soon enough. Aren't you waiting with baited breath?

The Midnight Devil

Most quizzes are ridiculous. Some, however, absolutely fascinate me. If only since I know what I should get, theoretically, and am therefore curious as to whether or not the expectation will match the result. The two below are definitely quizzes I thought would be fun.

The first is a time of day quiz. I was pleased with the result.

You Are Midnight

You are more than a little eccentric, and you're apt to keep very unusual habits. Whether you're a nightowl, living in a commune, or taking a vow of silence - you like to experiment with your lifestyle. Expressing your individuality is important to you, and you often lie awake in bed thinking about the world and your place in it. You enjoy staying home, but that doesn't mean you're a hermit. You also appreciate quality time with family and close friends.

What Time Of Day Are You?

The second decides which Tarot card I am. Fun, eh? I was absolutely delighted with this result.

Which Tarot Card Are You?

You are the Devil card. The Devil is based on the figure Pan, Lord of the Dance. The earthy physicality of the devil breeds lust. The devil's call to return to primal instincts often creates conflict in a society in which many of these instincts must be kept under control. Challenges posed by our physical bodies can be overcome by strength in the mental, emotional, and spiritual realms. Pan is also a symbol of enjoyment and rules our material creativity. The devil knows physical pleasure and how to manipulate the physical world. Material creativity finds its output in such things as dance, pottery, gardening, and sex. The self-actualized person is able to accept the sensuality and usefulness of the devil's gifts while remaining in control of any darker urges. Image from The Stone Tarot deck. http://hometown.aol.com/newtarotdeck/
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Satisfying the Movie Whore Inside Me pt. 1

There are particular moments in time that I cherish above all others. Kissing the girl, reading/writing while lounging in pillowy grass, and watching beautiful trees sway in the wind rank as the top three. However, there is one experience that may even trump all three of those. Or at least two of them. 'Cause I do enjoy a good kiss, even gnome kisses are quality.

Nevertheless, I'm a sucker for a quality experience with movies. So much so that I have a hard time justifying watching a mediocre movie by myself for the pure enjoyment of the film. I certainly can, hell I saw "Bring It On" by myself just to giggle unashamedly for an hour and a half. (A goodish story involving me, a cop, and expired tags followed my fateful viewing of Kirsten Dunst's masterwork. Stay tuned for that one if I ever get to it.) Of course, I did see "Bring It On" in the theatre and I almost need no justification whatsoever to go see a movie at the theatre. Yet taking the time and sitting on a couch by myself for cinematic joy is incredibly hard for me to justify. To wit, the last movie I watched by my lonesome on the tub was "Oldboy" and I have "Irreversible" and "Requiem for a Dream" still waiting for me.

I'm hard to please, man.

So, it's clearly a tough deal for me to actually pick movies for myself. That said, I'm entirely more engageable when I have another soul to spy with. And last weekend, as I wanted some quality time with my mother, I picked out three movies which I thought would provide at least some interestin' viewin'. I am pleased to say that I still have the golden touch of choosing movies - a golden touch which does NOT apply to groups larger than 4 people and include...certain people. I cannot be held responsible in that case. Large groups that do not contain like minded souls perplex me. I chose "Punch Drunk Love" for a New Years bash a few years ago because I thought it one of the sweetest and most brilliantly filmed love stories. I still think that, even with Sandler as the lead. But simply not for souls who like a challenge.

Regardless, on to the movies!

Movie #1: A History of Violence
I'm now convinced that Maria Bello is the most gorgeous woman I've ever seen on film. And that's not just because she engaged in definitely the most sensuous 69 and one of most emotional fucks I've seen on screen. Don't get me wrong, those are surely reasons. Yet her beauty on screen flies far from her sexuality and attractiveness. The body of her work in this film, in fantastic tandem with the swarmy Viggo, is so full and passionate. I challenge you to work her performance in this film and not stand amazed. Now, I'm not saying hers is the greatest performance of any woman. However, I do acknowledge the wonderful character she wove together.

As a whole, the "A History of Violence" is incredibly difficult to watch. Difficult because the humanity exuded is so complete and total. I felt as if I were on a roller coaster, both excited and dreading the certain end. However, I also challenge you to expect this ending. There is such emotion and consuming fire throughout the work. Brilliant.

Movie #2: Ladies in Lavender
This was my film 'specially for m'mom. She likes the films about old women and the high octane antics they get into. Put the old ones in Britain and my mom is even more sold than before. Count me sold as well. The only movie I've seen to truly capitalize on this apparently new genre of film is "Calendar Girls." However, that's all on the word of my parents. Despite my delight in Helen Mirren, I have not seen the gal prance around nearly buff. I have, though, seen Dame Judy Dench lust after a 20 year old boy. It's an interesting sight to behold, I assure you.

"Ladies" is a lovely film. Evocative of a sweet time and place I've only seen created so well before by Rosamunde Pilcher. In addition, the violin plays a centerpiece of sorts to the heart of "Lavender." This is good. But even better? The violin is played by Joshua Bell. He's not the most talented of players, but when it comes to it, he can be gratifyingly electric. The girl should know him.


Movie #3: Elizabethtown

Huge fan of Cameron. But when "Elizabethtown" came out, I avoided it like the plague. As much as I keep hoping for Orlando Bloom to find a role to shine in, I couldn't bare seeing him struggle through this emotional fare. Kirsten Dunst is one of those actresses that I can only imagine is where she is because of decent but not great talent and fabulous luck. I can't say this definitively, but Dunst seems to play the same voice and face in every role she plays. It's incredibly distracting. However, I gave it a try, largely based on the sister's recommendation.

It was good. Not surprising from Cameron Bruce Crowe. More than that, though, is how decently both Bloom and Dunst acted. Dunst I could tolerate and Bloom, while he admittedly had at least two really cringe-worthy moments, was respectable. However, the engaging thing was their chemistry. It made the movie enjoyable. What made the movie fantastic? The music.

Two words: Great Music.

And with that, I'm done. Movie Whore very full and sated with a smug grin.

My Hatred of Chapstick

Don't get me wrong, I love chapstick. There's nothing worse than experiencing dry, cracked lips - especially for someone who really likes to smile when there's good cause to do so. And you can thank Peekaboo Street for my englightened views on lip care. (Was she the one who started the craze of ski suits with webbing on the knees and elbows?) I like my lips. So naturally I take pride in their upkeep. Or knawing at them whenver I'm stressed. What have you.

My hunger for good lip care was the cause of my excitement one day in a local drug store. You see, I found a lip balm made specially for men. I really don't like fruity stuff, especially when it comes to coming in contact with my lips. [This is why I appreciate the girl's lack of desire - which is not total, something also appreciated - for lip type stuff.] So naturally this manly man type lip balm was advertised of being free of berry flavorings. I could only approve.

And the stuff came in the coolest silver box and silver tube. My own silver bullet. Only without the orgams.

And the taste. Oh! The taste! The only way I can accurately describe the stuff is by calling it a warm mix of diluted lemon, beeswax and honey butter. It was glorious! That blessed lip balm was not only an answer to prayer for my lips but also to my sensibilities of wanting some quality, non-"exotic fruit extravaganza" lip care.

Yet then, tragedy struck. In a lecture in the Little Hat at Cambridge my bookbag tipped over and out popped my chapstick, out of my bag and into the world of infamy. I could not find it! No. I searched both high and low, for of course the lecture hall was stadium-like (being also utterly cool) and I, in wanting to cover every single base, searched both the steps below and above where I lost my lil' bullet. Such was my desperation.

(I think I was sitting beside Damion for that lecture, though I can't remember what lecture it was. The lectures ranged from delightful, to good, to horrendous. I think that day was a good day.)

With trepidation, I come back to the states balm-less. Yet such was my confidence of finding righteous lip care that I strode into the nearest Target without a doubt in my head that I would soon equip myself again.

Oh the horror!!!

The chapstick was no more. Is no more!

So here do I mope
I refuse what cannot match,
No immitations!

(Honestly, what the hell? Was this even a chapstick? Was it official Chapstick? I even went so far as to search for it on ebay and I can find no reference to it whatsoever. I sigh, homeboys.)

I'm Looking Forward to All That Comes

I truly am.

Reading Damion's post from yesterday gave me great pause. First, I couldn't be happier for him. He truly is a wonderful soul, a fantastic friend, and an incredibly kick-ass future academian. If you didn't get it before now, brother, you rock and I am so glad to know you as a true friend. Second, it made me think again about the path that I'm on. Even though I'm not pursuing an advanced degree in literature or holing myself up in some godforsaken house to pen my masterpiece, I'm digging the path that I'm walkin'. Still, it's all pretty freak-inspiring. Indeed, I think I've been on the verge of an utter freak out for the past few weeks due to such inspiration.

Actually, I think that my being on that verge limited my posting despite the many ideas I've had for posts. What, three people read this? Well, still, I apologize for not being more consistent. But hey, you people get me much more than my friends in England who I still have not responded to for...nigh on two months. I really should abandon electronic media and go back to pen and paper (like I don't already), so I at least have an excuse for my inability to get off a timely ditty.

To be sure and to be back on topic, I'm certainly not complaining. I have absolutely nothing to complain about. Top 25 program, top 20 school, and all without having to spend (much) of my own money. Natch.

All that said, I'm nervous about what this path holds for me. For many reason I couldn't continue directly with literature. For the sake of my sanity I could not continue in pure mathematics or, really, any derivative. So, Economics. A little bit of math, a little bit of writing, and a dash of human behavior. I'm excited for what I could do. But what is it? What in the world could I possibly accomplish? We all hope to put our stamp on something, with little success for the majority. I do and have always hoped to at least rule the world. Yet, failing that, I want to have some impact on the world around me. And beyond some simplistic and fuzzy desire to be a good person, I truly wonder how or if I can achieve such wants through economics.

But mostly I don't want school to be a chore anymore. Talking with the girl this morning, she suddenly realised that she had 5 more years of dealing with my bitching about school. (Darlin', I have 7 plus years of the same for you - so no complaining for you, hottest woman I've ever met.) Not ruling the world and not enjoying school, two big fears. There are so many horror stories about graduate school, even within fields genuinely loved. And I'm going into Economics pretty much blind. It certainly does not bode well for me.

Yet I have my hopes. I hope I come close to the pleasure Damion has experienced at Maryland (I so dearly wanted to be a turtle...). I hope I'm challenged, exhorted, encouraged. I want the majority of my time spent in endeavors that titillate my soul with good, sex/fuzzy type feelings instead of those feelings that cross far too over the boundaries of masochism for comfort's sake. School has been a bore for me in the past 9 semester that I've been here. I can't imagine continuing in that same vein. I realise such may be the work most people find themselves in. But I'll be forced into such an existence before I gladly choose it. I enjoyed my undergraduate education, yet it wasn't everything it could have been, you could say.

And this is just a post to say I've got every little thing crossed that can be crossed to ensure Chapel Hill will be everything I can make it.

Talk about self-indulgence, heh.

A Disturbing Motion-Captured Event

My intial thoughts upon seeing the above:

"The coolest thing I've ever seen."

"The most disturbing thing I've ever seen."

Jean Claude, we miss you. Can anyone guess which movie this is from?

**Apparently blogger hates gif files and refuses to play what I believe will capture your heart and mind. Visit my beloved CHuD for the gloriousness of Jean Claude Van Damme break dancing. Huge clue to the movie right there.

How Long You Say?!

Below are the videos, in descending order, that have come out on DVD since the Girl left for a year in Perugia (if only it were Provence, she could put out a bestselling book and a kickass movie starring Inspector Morse).

Isn't this depressing?

The number one movie we're looking forward to seeing together?

(I'm probably more excited about watching Pride and Prejudice with her, but any chance to watch her freak out and laugh with her is a damn good reason to watch a movie.)

04/11/06 - Fun With Dick and Jane, The Greatest Game Ever Played, An Unfinished Life, and Wolf Creek.

04/04/06 - Bee Season, Brokeback Mountain, The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, and Ushpizin.

03/28/06 - Get Rich or Die Tryin', King Kong, and Memoirs of a Geisha.

03/21/06 - Capote, Chicken Little, Derailed, Dreamer: Inspired by a True Story, and The Squid and the Whale.

03/14/06 - A History of Violence, Good Night, and Good Luck, and The Prize Winner of Defiance, Ohio.

03/07/06 - Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, Jarhead, Just Friends, and Prime.

02/28/06 - The Ice Harvest, Pride & Prejudice, Walk the Line, and Yours, Mine & Ours.

02/21/06 - Domino, North Country, Rent, and The Weather Man.

02/14/06 - Proof, Saw II, and Zathura.

02/07/06 - Doom, Elizabethtown, Just Like Heaven, Waiting…, and Wallace & Gromit: The Curse of the Were-Rabbit.

01/31/06 - In Her Shoes, The Legend of Zorro, and Tim Burton's Corpse Bride.

01/24/06 - The Aristocrats, Flightplan, and The Fog.

01/17/06 - Enron: The Smartest Guys in the Room, Lord of War, The Man, and Two for the Money.

01/10/06 - The Constant Gardener, Hustle & Flow, Red Eye, and Transporter 2.

01/03/06 - Broken Flowers, The Cave, The Gospel, and Wedding Crashers.

12/27/05 - 2046, Dark Water, Grizzly Man, Into the Blue, and The Wild Parrots of Telegraph Hill.

12/20/05 - The Brothers Grimm, The Exorcism of Emily Rose, Four Brothers, The Great Raid, Must Love Dogs, Rebound, and Serenity.

12/13/05 - The 40 Year-Old Virgin, Bad News Bears, The Island, Roll Bounce, and Valiant.

12/06/05 – Cinderella Man, The Dukes of Hazzard, Fantastic Four, and Ladies in Lavender.

11/29/05 - Deuce Bigalow: European Gigolo, March of the Penguins, Mr. & Mrs. Smith, and Sky High.

11/22/05 - The Honeymooners, The Polar Express, and War of the Worlds.

11/15/05 - Madagascar, The Skeleton Key, and Stealth.

11/08/05 - Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Christmas With the Kranks, and The Devil's Rejects.

11/01/05 - Aliens of the Deep, Millions, The Perfect Man, and Star Wars Episode III – Revenge of the Sith.

10/25/05 - Bewitched, Herbie: Fully Loaded, House of Wax, and Melinda and Melinda.

10/18/05 - Batman Begins, Land of the Dead, and Mad Hot Ballroom.

10/11/05 - Kicking & Screaming, Kingdom of Heaven, Me and You and Everyone We Know, The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, and Unleashed.

10/04/05 - The Amityville Horror, Cinderella, and The Interpreter.

09/27/05 - Lords of Dogtown and Robots.

09/20/05 - The Adventures of Sharkboy and Lavagirl, Born Into Brothels, The Longest Yard, and Mindhunters.

09/13/05 - Fever Pitch and The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy.

09/06/05 - Crash.

08/30/05 - Monster-in-Law, Ong-Bak: The Thai Warrior, and Sahara.

08/23/05 - Beauty Shop, Layer Cake, A Lot Like Love, and The Ring Two.

Queen, Idol, and I

Bucky - “Fat Bottomed Girls” - I hate this kid, he has such a horrible presence. But his voice actually did the song a bit of justice. Though the gruffness was a bit too much after a while. Wow, he’s married. I wouldn’t have thought. Quite agree with Simon, “mediocre.” I want him to go.

Ace - “We Will Rock You” - Ugh, he tried to pop it up. Negative points homeboy. Worst choice of song in the world for him. He’s not hard enough for this song. Pathetic. That’s right Randy, Karioke. No Paula, no Paula…you don’t change “We Will Rock You.” Right on Simon, a “mess.” “We Will Rock You gently” - very nice. And he did forget the lyrics! I hope you’re gone, man. Loser.

Ace sucks. Cocky pretty boy.

Kellie - “Bohemian Raphsody” - Why did she have to do it? Another blonde chick. Ok, she’s kind of hitting it. Oh! She went into the crowd, somewhat cool. Randy’s right, “entertained.” “I think it worked,” is right. You’re right Damion… “ewww.” But hey, even I can say I didn’t hate it. Now I need to hear the real thing. I’m cleansing myself with the voice of Freddie.

“It’s his accent, I don’t understand it.” “We both have a problem here.” Sad, funny interchange.

Chris - “Innuendo” - I love this guy. His voice is magnetic, and so hard, full. Damn, that was so brilliant. If he doesn’t win this I’ll be amazed. Huh, never been performed live. I’m impressed they let him do it. Simon’s correct, not the greatest song in the world - but I would have loved to have heard Freddie’s voice on it. And despite the obvious, I think I rather got it. Indulgent fantasy - wanting Chris to sing either “We are the Champions” or “Princes of the Universe.”

Catherine - “Don’t Stop Me Now” - “Who Wants to Live Forever” - Highlander plug! She didn’t catch it. The joy of this fun is the heartache in Freddie’s voice in the beginning few seconds. She’s just belting it. How sucky. Just stop. “Glorious voice”? I’m sorry, you’re tone deaf Paula. Top it off Simon, she looked horrible and sounded awful. I hate her. I hater her so much. You screamed.

Elliot - “Somebody to Love” - You’ve never heard the song?! I love this song. Wow, close your eyes. Yeah, that was kinda nice. They’ll love it. And they did. He should win if only for his jaw. He has a nice voice.

Taylor! - “We are the Champions” - “A Crazy Little Thing Called Love” - Interesting. I love this song as well. This fellow entertains me. Damn, if I didn’t enjoy it. Awww, but he missed the mic stand. Yeah, I enjoyed it. I think it was a little too put on.

Paris - “The Show Must Go On” - She actually had me until the chorus. She’s getting drowned out. Eh. No, she clearly isn’t a powerhouse, Paula. Weird, weird is probably good. Nope. Didn’t like it.


Damion, you were right my friend. I was still glad to be excited though. Not everyday one can at least hear the lyrics of Queen on TV. If only to have been there with you to rant and rave, though.

Favorite Performance: Chris. He rocked.

Top Three: Chris, Elliot, Taylor - I can't put Kellie there because as brave as she is, she wasn't brave enough

Bottom Three: Ace, Catherine, Buck - I can't put Paris on there simply because I can't fault the girl for not having Freddie's vocals.

The one thing I learned. I love Freddie Mercury more than ever. And Brian May still has the greatest hair, aside from the lead singer of Coheed & Cambria.

Queen...ON IDOL!

I am an unabashed fan of Queen. Freddie Mercurcy, in the words of Marilyn Manson, is my own personal jesus...after the real deal, of course. I LOVE Queen. I'm not obsessed...I don't think. I have one poster, a fabulous Bohemian tour poster I found at the beach. I have one shirt bought at the "We Will Rock You" musical in London. And of course I have as many songs as I've been able to find. "Bohemian Raphsody" is a constant companion on road trips, along with "Fat Bottomed Girls" and "We Will Rock You." ("Princes of the Universe" is my own personal Queen first, so I keep it in special reserve so that brand new song smell never fades.)

Needless to say, I'm super excited for tonight's American Idol! For, friends, not only are the contestants singing the songs of Queen, the band (I believe, though I'm not positive) will be on as well!

Wahooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

I have to admit something. Last weekend, being the occassional pop culture whore that I am, I watched the Idol elimination show. When it became clear that Taylor Hicks was safe and the revelation of the Queen extravaganza became clear, I threw my hands up in the air and celebrated. I've never quite seen a performer like Hicks (think funky, bluesy, hillbilly chique) and the chance to see him sing Queen absolutely kicks my ass.

I am so pumped. For the first time in my life I will be watching an entire episode of American Idol! This reminds me of the series that sought to find a replacement for the unconquerable Michael Hutchence (lead singer of INXS). An epidsode also featured the music of Queen and included a pathetic performance of Bohemian by some blonde-haired chick. I really couldn't stand it...I think they might have even brought in a choir. I thought it was appropriate that she was voted out after her preformance of Raphsody in a very un-Queen like way. You don't mess with Mercury. Hutchense's eventual replacement, JD Fortune, on the other hand was quite delightful that night.

So I have my fingers crossed.

I'm pumped, I'm excited, I would be having friends over if they were cool enough to like Queen. I don't so - that are close enough anyway, otherwise I would have my ass planted on Damion's sofa - pffbt on them!

Watch Idol!

To Serve Them All My Days

R.F. Delderfield wielded a massive influence on my childhood. He and James Herriot, actually, were like my twin gods of Englishness constantly hovering above the chaos of my red-headed childhood. My first experience with Delderfield was, as were most of my first experiences with books, as I lounged on my parents' green wicker furniture out on the sun-baked side porch of my illustrious childhood home. [By the by, Barnes and Noble can quite go to hell. Its top 4 search results for my chain query of "To Serve Them All My Days"? - All the Wild and Lonely Places, Meg's Absolutely Wonderful Tremendous Fantastic Day, My Battle with Cushing's Disease, and the Mormon Missionaries. Que?!] As much as I remember ideals, turns of phrase, and the importance of passion in word play, I remember too the smell of summer and the mixed sounds of birds and cars as they simulatenously passed by my insular world.

Quaint, eh?

Delderfield taught me many things. Foremost among his teachings was the idea of how incredibly impassioned education should be. I didn't learn of my want to become an amazing student from that lesson (a sad thing, I assure you). Rather, I became fascinated with the idea and ideal of teaching. The rather chummy air between teachers. The faux fieroscity of teachers as they chastise and encourage students. Tea and crumpets. It all read like such a journey - not only a socially engaging journey, but one in which passion was defined as the burning centre of every human. That might sound like a weird thing coming from a book written by a stodgy Englishman. But it ties in - it has to. Here is this fellow fresh from the horrors of WWI who finds both rest and meaning within the walls of an English boarding school (how's that for a scintillating summary?) And through that recouperative rest (I don't do this often, promise), this man finds passion again, redefined and breathing inside of him.

How cool is that?

I don't want to teach. I refuse, for the most part, because I want to maintain this ideal picture of the teacher. I don't want to taint it. I've been blessed with some of the most encouraging and talented teachers in my life. I'd truly have to be tempted by the devil himself and all his trappings to teach. Otherwise I'd just like to sit quietly (hah) in a corner with a pen in hand and allow other, more courageous personages than I, the chance to teach...before I pounce all over them. (Like a cat!)

Regardless. Despite my inspid babbling, I come to express my joy at the 1982 miniseries of "To Serve Them All My Days." I realise there are few indeed who even know who Delderfield is, even fewer who know of his dash through the fabled halls of English boarding schools. Nonetheless, I hold great joy in it.



(Erin, have you ever seen this series?)

Passion. For some reason, it defines me. Well, that's a silly statement. Passion should define all of our lives. However, even as a child I recognized the magnetism of passion - whether it be in teaching, the magical drawings of a wandering Japanese peasant, or talking drags. I want to fold myself into those worlds in which passion is defined as central to all things.

A passion for teaching: this I learned from Delderfield.

So What Am I?

As of this past Saturday, I learned of Virginia's decision to admit me into their grad program. Wahoo! Of course, I found out in the most anticlimactic of ways: online. Despite that, colour me excited and whatnot. However, I was already accepted into Chapel Hill and wanted to give them enough time to send out their financial package to another student if I, "oh please oh please oh please," was accepted into Virginia with lots and lots of money. So I ventured out and sent an e-mail to the Graduate Studies director, asking for news about financial aid. Simple answer: there was none. And there were no reasonable opportunities for funding outside of a loan.

Shucks. Shucks for two reasons. One, I desperately wanted to go to Virginia so I could finally establish myself just a hop, skip, and a jump away from the girl. Two, I had to twist Virginia's arm to tell me anything. Fact is I still haven't received anything in the mail. Kinda lame, dude, kinda lame.

So. No Virginia and no Maryland. And with Delaware and UNC-Greensboro offering 115% and 80%, respectively, less funding than Chapel Hill, easy decision eh?

No, not quite. I needed a period of mourning. I was incredibly jazzed at the possibility of attending Viriginia and living not only so close to the girl but also attending a University that she's somewhat interested in transferring to. We've existed for 2 years and change at no closer than 6 hours (by my driving, 7 by Mapquest) apart for more than 2 weeks. Regardless of looking a gift horse in the mouth and being a bastard for whining about the incredible opportunity at CH, it was upsetting that Virginia just isn't an option.

But that was Monday and Tuesday. Today is Wednesday.

Today is the day that I fully accepted the offer to become a graduate Tar Heel.